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Don’t be afraid to be single

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After a 19th boyfriend, it may be time to stop stating and to assess what you want.

   Have you ever known a person who is seemingly always in a relationship? They bounce around from person to person without a break in between, leaving many of us wondering why they feel the need to always be in a relationship.

  I’m not saying its a bad thing to have relationships, but sometimes taking a step back from the dating game and assessing what you really want in a partner is key. How do you know what you want when you are getting into serious relationships over and over again?

  Taking some time off is the best way to meet new people with prospect without getting too involved.

  Who you are with is an important decision, and all important decisions take time to consider. Although it may seem spontaneous and fresh to date the next person who comes into our lives, it could lead to a miserable relationship if you don’t know them very well.

  According to Marie Claire Magazine, many people bounce around from one person to the next because they have a fear of being alone. However, those who fear loneliness in their future should conquer the fear head on.

  Don’t try to force anything by getting into one serious thing right after one has ended.

  Give yourself some time to breathe and reflect. How are you supposed to know what you want versus what you don’t want from a significant other in the next relationship if you don’t?

  Everyone deserves someone who will treat them with respect and give them love and attention; don’t settle

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Do you always need to be in a relationship?

for anything less! A fear of being single can make us settle for less than what we deserve, so before getting involved with the next person you see, ask yourself if you can see them treating you the way a significant other should.

  Relationships can be fun, but so is being single. When you are single, you have certain freedoms that you don’t have when you are tied down by relationships. You can go out with friends whenever you want, go to whatever college you want, or talk to whoever you want to without offending your significant other.

  It is human nature to seek out companionship and new experiences, but back to back relationships do not allow you to grow as a person or to grow for future relationships.

  So before you jump into a serious thing with the next person that comes along, take some time to reflect on what went wrong in the last relationship, and how you have grown from it.

Sources:

http://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/men/always-dating-relationship

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